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Frequently asked questions

What's this site all about then?


It's a dating site for gay men who are looking for a deeper connection in life. You can learn all about us on our 'About this site' page.

Is this really a free service?


Like most services on the web, there are different levels of membership. It's totally free to join, create a profile with a photo, search our database and flirt with people you're interested in. The premium membership allows you to do more advanced things like save your searches, video chat and add more photos. And it only costs a few pennies a day!

Can I join if I'm not gay?


You are welcome to participate in the community if you have a positive input, but clearly signing up to the dating aspect would be pointless if you are not gay.

Can I post 'adult' pictures of myself on the site?


Nudity is not allowed on the site. There are plenty of other websites where this kind of thing is allowed and encouraged, but we are for men seeking connections and relationships, not a hook up.

Are my details secure?


Absolutely. We have very strong data protection policies in place and our system is designed to keep all your information 100% secure and confidential at all times. We never give out personal details unless required to do so under very special circumstances by law or other decree. Even then, we will do everything within our power to ensure there is no other way around it. Privacy is extremely important to us as it is one of the key foundations of a successful dating site.

Who do I contact for support?


You can get support either by phone (UK number) or email. Visit our contact page to get in touch.

Who can I contact for press or advertising enquiries?


Send an e-mail directly to enquiries@hotfordating.com.